From: statehoodnow@gov.su.us (The Voltairian™/Black Jester™/Closet Libertarian™/Riley Bitterman) Newsgroups: alt.sex.strip-clubs Subject: Re: ASSC: Dating a dancer....the ageless question - MBOT repost [LIBTR] Date: Sat, 24 Aug 2002 08:53:25 GMT Organization: Closet Libertarian™/Black Jester™ Reply-To: statehoodnow@gov.su.us Message-ID: <3d674836.306449@news.lightspeed.ca> References: <27a954cc.0208180921.6cd5a770@posting.google.com> <3d6031bf.2149235@news.lightspeed.ca> X-Newsreader: Forte Free Agent 1.21/32.243 NNTP-Posting-Host: vandial34.lightspeed.bc.ca X-Original-NNTP-Posting-Host: vandial34.lightspeed.bc.ca X-Trace: rsl2.rslnet.net 1030179683 vandial34.lightspeed.bc.ca (24 Aug 2002 02:01:23 -0700) Lines: 72 Path: rsl2.rslnet.net Xref: rsl2.rslnet.net alt.sex.strip-clubs:85374 On Mon, 19 Aug 2002 03:57:56 GMT, demorgan@jdege.visi.com (demorgan) wrote: >My take on anyone who says they want to date a dancer is no, you don't. > >You want to date who she's pretending to be, when she's working. > >It's a lot of work, for her to maintain that pretense, and she's not >doing it for free. > >Pay her enough, and she may do it just for you, for a while. > >But don't pretend to yourself that you're dating her. You're not. > >You're dating a performance. Right on....they want that persona. Just like people who yell at soap opera stars like they are who they are on TV. Or fuck any Film or TV industry nerd, who obsessively sees them as their character that they are most familiar with or in some cases all, which means they end up stalking a multiple personality in their mind, which is really a mindless endevor, even for stalking. Some times it's a status symbol thing...A "look at me, I'm a stud, dancers (or actors, etc...) hang out...errr..date...with me." Even using that grammer. A fruit in the closet eventually gets rotten, you'd think they'd get a fridge or something and chill out. Docta Gov. Admr. Count Gölök Zoltán Leenderdt Franco Buday; PhG Aka A guy so loved (this is what he here's anyway) by women they do nothing but avoid seeing him and leave him in the state of lonelyness knowingly. Writer, Humorist, and everything else under the moon. [Also said to be a multi-trilionare businessman and Navy SEAL] Vancouver, Neo Sumer/Olympia, Washington/Who knows where else... The Official Black Jester Website: http://www.blackjester.com/ My Ego Times: http://myegotimes.virtualave.net/ Dictionary: http://myegotimes.virtualave.net/dictionary/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "As you have the power, sir, to do some service to letters, I implore you not to clip the wings of our writers so closely, nor turn into barndoor fowls those who, allowed a start, might become eagles; reasonable liberty permits the mind to soar--slavery makes it creep." -- Voltaire [A Letter To A First Commissioner] -------------------------------------------------------------------------- "He that would make his own liberty secure must guard even his enemy from oppression; for if he violates this duty he establishes a precedent that will reach to himself." -- Thomas Paine -------------------------------------------------------------------------- The Republicans are the party that says government doesn't work and then gets elected and proves it. -P.J. O'Rourke -------------------------------------------------------------------------- "There may not be an 'I' in team, but there is an 'I' in Libertarian (in fact 2)" -- Gölök Buday, April of 2002 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ PS I am not, nor have been, known as Grant Buday † Download Free Agent ftp://ftp.forteinc.com/pub/free_agent/fa32-121.exe Free Agent Product PageFree Agent Product Page http://www.forteinc.com/agent/freagent.htm